Sure, it’s a controversial topic, but for the most part, we’re all aware that excessive use of porn, over time—especially when it’s done in secret (and let’s be honest, what guy or gal watches porn in public?) can destroy a marriage. But exactly why can porn be so bad for the relationship? The answer is based in science and explained in Rob Weiss’s new book, Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating. Weiss explains that generally, research tells us that one partner’s use of pornography tends to result in the following:
- An overall decrease in relationship happiness and satisfaction
- Decreased sexual gratification within the relationship
- Lack of contentment with the couple’s decision-making process
The key here is “one partner’s use of porn”, which breaks down trust and annihilates intimacy. On the other hand if, as a couple, you find that watching porn together revs desire, then by all means, dial it up. It’s all about agreeing on sexual boundaries and behaviors. Read more in MindBodyGreen.